If there are others who see something in you that they do not approve of, most often you see their disapproval reflected back through their eyes, and you feel that you have gone wrong in some way.
如果有人在你身上看到他們不認同的事,通常你會從他們的眼神中看到他們對你的不認可,而你也會覺得是你自己走錯路…
And we say unto you, it is not your lack, it is theirs. It is thier inability to be the Allower that brings forth their negative emotion; it is not your imperfection.
而我們要告訴你,這不是你的不足,而是他們的損失。他們無法成為一個「允許者」,以致於帶來了負面的情緒,這不是因為你不完美。
And, in like fashion, when you feel negative emotion because you have seen something in others that you do not